Whether it is your boyfriend or husband, when they are not behaving like a normal person and getting mad at everything this is an alarming situation for girls and wives to deal with in their life. In this article, we will try to answer the question My boyfriend gets mad at everything. What should I do?
If he is getting mad at everything as you said, he must be a huge stress. As his closest friend and life partner, you need to help him. You need to do everything you can do to correct his nature.
Find the Root Cause of his behavior
Does he was mad at everything since you know him? If he suddenly got into this mode, then you need to find the root cause of the matter. Find a good time to talk with him. Especially when he is happy and not doing anything. Tell him that you understand that you are very much under stress and you want to help him. If he expressed his feelings then it’s a good sign that he wants to get out of trouble. If possible take him to a professional counselor. Even If he is not telling you anything he will tell the counselor for sure.
If you made it and found the root cause of this behavior then you should help him whether it is a family or financial matter. You need to do whatever you can to show your love and contribution to helping him to overcome his problem. While helping him you need to monitor his behavior. If his problem is temporary then eventually it will get resolved and his behavior will change. He will stop getting mad at everything.
If you made every possible decision to make him happy but if he still getting mad at everything, you need to make a decision. Assess your situation ask yourself mentioned questions.
- How much you love him?
- How much you can take this further?
- Can you live with him till the end of this situation?
Based on your judgment you need to take a hard decision to be with him or to stay away from him. Getting mad at everything is still be considered good behavior, but if he is getting violent then you should stay away from him for your good and safety. If you are married and have children you can seek legal help.
If you decided to stay away from him or to stay with him it’s your call. If you have decided to stay away from him or you have decided to stay with him, it is mandatory to accept the reality that some things can not be changed and you have no control over everything. You need to stay happy in both scenarios. You are not the only one who has gone through this situation.
Hope you will make a good decision. If you want further help comment in the comment section below, I will be willing to respond on priority.