Everything that goes up is going to get down, and everyone happy today is going to be said one day. If your relationship is missing that spark or is not working the way it used to, then you need to reignite the spark in your relationship. In this article, we will discuss 10 ways to spice up your relationship.
Method 1: Remember End Is the New Beginning
Forget everything and start fresh if necessary. Try to revive the early days of your relationship and recreate those moments. For example, if you visited a hotel in your first interaction, revisit that place with your loved one. This might recall your old happy memories, which will help you remember how you both fell in love.
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Method 2: Show that You Care What Having Her/Him
When relationships become older, both parties take everything for granted. Such as if she doesn’t like going to movies, we should not plan to watch a movie. But you forget that this was more than 5 years ago. Maybe she started liking watching movies, maybe she has changed, maybe she wants to try something new. You need to show him/her that you care for them and the relationship and that you as a partner want this relationship to work at any cost and for this, you are ready to do anything. To show them that you care, you need to do something, such as plan a surprise party, vacation, trip, etc. Try to buy something that he/she will like.
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If you are working within the city or someplace far away, give her/him a call during work hours, they will like it, that you spent some of your precious time with them and for sure you will be apricated for that. You can also ask about the whereabouts of your partner’s family members, whether they are doing great or you can plan a surprise visit at their place and can plan a lunch together. Showing care for family members of your loved ones is a great way to show them that you care.
Method 3: Learn Together
Learning together is a great way to strengthen or create bonds. Just, find out what you both will love to learn and get enrolled. Try something exotic such as learning to fly a plane, dance, scuba diving, drive a boat, or learn a new language together. When we learn something, it shows our abilities and vulnerabilities and how we react to both of them. Learning each other’s abilities and vulnerabilities could strengthen your bond.
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Method 4: Make Them Miss You
As discussed earlier too much time in a relationship can create a routine and you both can take things for granted. For example, if you are a girl and as a daily routine you always prepare a morning coffee and serve him on a bed. Routine can make him think that it’s your job to prepare him coffee and serve it on the bed before he wakes up. If you are a man who always takes the lead in bed then she might think that you must take the lead in bed. These are just an example for your understanding. If you want to break this routine, you need to give it a break. For example, don’t start preparing him a coffee or you can simply plan a multiple-day trip with your friends to somewhere far away. By doing this you can make him miss you and suddenly he can realize what you meant to him.
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Method 5: Communicate
You are reading this post, which means you think that you both have lost it and there is no spark in your relationship. You can directly discuss this with your partner that something needs to be done to reignite our relationship. By doing this, try to find the root cause of why you are feeling this and find a solution. There is a high chance that you will find a solution to your problem by keeping communication open.
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Method 6: Non-Sexual Physical Intimacy
Normal touch, such as holding hands in crowded places, helping and giving a hand while using stairs, or kissing on the forehead, can reignite old, lost feelings.
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Method 7: Be Irregular and Illogical
Too much intelligence, understanding, knowing everything, and overthinking can ruin your and your partner’s happiness. Sometimes, be like a child, make mistakes, plan anything suddenly, play games together, and don’t think too much. Please understand that everything is not to be logical, we are part of the universe but at the same time, we are humans and not machines.
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Method 8: Build Yourself
If negativity and procrastination are killing your relationship, you have to build yourself up. Join a gym, reduce or increase your weight as per your current requirement, and be healthy. If you think that you are not doing something good financially or emotionally then start a new business or take a new degree to enhance your professional qualification, which will not only bring happiness but also will help you financially in the future. There are no limits to building yourself up even if you think that you need to shift to a better city then you can do the same.
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Method 9: Sex
Sex is an integral part of any relationship, if you think that your sexual life is boring then you can get rid of the boring situation by trying something new such as lighting candles, playing romantic and soothing music, etc. or you can plan for a second honeymoon or try something new which can create more special moments.
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Method 10: Let Your Partner Know That You Care
Telling your partner regularly about how much you love them, and saying words such as “Thank God! You are my wife, else how could I have survived “are going to make wonders.
Conclusion:
Maintaining a relationship and spicing up is a two-way task but you can always take the lead. Don’t wait for your partner that he/she will take care of it and why would I only take the burden of making it work? If you think this way, it is not going to work and eventually, it is going to harm your relationship badly. Thriving relationships require a positive environment and it is your responsibility to create positivity in your relationship at whatever cost.
