People are stubborn and selfish too; they don’t know that they are selfish. I mean take an example, how long it takes for a person to forget the death of their loved ones? This is the same scenario but it’s relative from person to person. In this article, we discuss How does it feel when you did not end up with someone you see as the love of your life?
If you get a better replacement
People are selfish. If you had a breakup or not ended up with your loved one, but ended with someone better, chances are you will forget the first one. It is human nature that everyone who does not have any mental health issues will choose happiness over sadness. People are selfish for consuming happiness. Even genuine people are selfish in this scenario.
Take an example.
Sophia loves Sam a lot since they were school friends. For some reason, Sophia ended up with someone else who is better than sam. But, Sophia still loves sam which makes her sad. Sophia’s practical mind recognizes that remembering sam brings negative feelings to her mind, so she decides to be happy and forget sam at any cost.
So the point results should always be happy. Everyone wants happiness.No one wants negativity even if it is coming from their loved ones.
If you do not get a better replacement
After breaking up, some people go into self-destruction mode. It is because they may have some psychological issues they did not deal with while they were developing their personality. These people choose sadness over new adventures. If you fail, you need to try again. Being adventurous, taking risks can be the greatest thing that ever happened to stubborn people.
So we can conclude that adventurous, innovative, and selfish people feel happy even when they did not end up with someone they see as the love of their life.
Stubborn people are stubborn. They never change.
I hope this answered your question. Be happy adventurous, innovative.
All the best!