Making a move is the biggest nightmare for introverted boys, forget about asking for a girl’s number. Girls think it is very easy to ask a number or approach a girl, but this is not true for most boys. But, with the right approach, confidence communication skills, and communication style we can always make this work. In this article, we will dive into a complete understanding of how to ask for a girl’s number.
Before reading this article, always remember to be true and stealthy, after getting a number a girl should never notice that you asked her number, be that smooth.
Build Trust
Present yourself as a genuine guy, being yourself, and minding your own business but at the same time show interest in her, her thoughts, and opinions and try to establish a good communication ground. For example, if you are in the same class, and living in the same area, try to find a common point to start a discussion but do not force it, she will get intimated by your weird actions and behaviors and will never talk with you again, so be careful.
Once good communication is established, while talking to her; listen attentively girls love when someone is listening to their stories very carefully and with great interest. Be a good boy by responding to her questions being polite and showing chivalry is not dead yet.
Once communication is perfectly set, the next mission is to be her friend and build trust. Discuss everything she likes from movies to games and so on. Try to find common friends, hobbies, etc. to build trust as girls will never give mobile numbers to non-credible individuals.
Wait for The Right Moment
Once everything is set as mentioned above, wait for the right moment or create a comfortable situation. For example, try to go to a social event where she will visit or has visited, or approach her at a mutual friend’s celebration/birthday party, etc. where she will not be intimated by your move. While doing this read her body movements, if she is not happy or not in a mood then don’t approach her. Try to talk with her first instead of directly making a move, that will make you look weird. By doing all this, respect her personal space and don’t be too forward or intimidating.
Offer her something to eat or ask for a coffee and while maintaining her self-esteem, make her feel important. You can give a compliment that, you are looking beautiful, or you can complement things she is wearing.
Make Sure Not to Make it Scripted.
While doing all this, still waits for the right moment, I mean a moment where she will not feel intimated. While asking for her phone number, it should look like it was part of the flow of the conversation. For example, you are discussing good movies and then ask for her number to discuss the great movies later. Or if you are planning to go somewhere in public, then ask her number so that you both will not be lost in traffic/crowd. If you are working together and if your organization has planned training in another city, you can approach her and ask for her number so, that you can accompany her on travel. Always remember when you ask a girl for her number then she will think why does this guy want my number, if she doesn’t feel that there could not be any valid reasons to give this guy her number, then she is not going to give you, her number.
Respect Her Decision
Once you have done asking her, to give you her mobile number and if she says yes, don’t just say thank you. Say, instead “I will give you a call”. But if she is not interested in giving you her number then don’t take it personally and say “No problem”. Don’t push too far and try to change her decision, your relationship is not going to work this way in the long run.
Conclusion:
How to Ask for a Girl’s Number is not an easy task for many men, being authentic, confident, stealthy, trustworthy, and non-scripted is a key. If you were not successful last time, then keep trying, I mean with a different girl.
