Most of the time, we fall in love with people we already are acquainted with such as close associates. normally it works well but now and then things can not be forced. In this article, we will see if it is a good decision to be close friends with a guy who confessed his feelings for you?
“My uncomplicated opinion in such circumstances is that it is not a good decision to be close friends with a guy who confessed his feelings for you.”
Clear Communication
Still, you need to trust your gut feelings, you know him. Is he able to accept the idea that you can not be in a relationship with him?. You are asking this question proves that you are also interested in him or you have compassion or at least some kinds of feelings for him.
You need to be very decisive as this is a very important matter for somebody else. If you are not sure, you are giving the wrong signals, and sooner or later, they are going to harm him.
If you are still being with him, not deliberately you are promising him that not today but in the future, we can be in a relationship. Do you want this? Do you want to be in a relationship with him in the future? But he needs a relationship right now, he doesn’t have time to play hide and seek. You don’t need to waste his time.
In here, you need to tell him without a doubt that we will never be together as girlfriend and boyfriend.
Your Safety
Another reason for it is not a good decision to be close friends with a guy who confessed his feelings for you is that, rejections summon egos. He can get revenge by doing some extreme things if he is a psychopath. It will easy for him to take revenge if you are still his friend.
You will not believe it but this is also a one-sided love state of affairs. One-sided love can lead to physical, emotional exploitation and even lead to difficult-to-understand proceedings that can not be expressed here.
Value Addition
Friendship is another aim but he initiated a proposal that can not be honored by you. He is the one who is responsible if friendship got broken. If whatever thing is not going to work, then what is the intention for still being friends?
We can finish off that,
If,
- You are sure that you are not in love with him and
- He is going to accept your rejection with adulthood and
- There will be no risk of being with him and
- Being a friend with him brings positive value to your life.
Then, it is a good decision to be close friends with a guy who confessed his feelings for you.
Else, You should stay away from him for your safety and his good being.
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All the best ?